Rahul n me are best frnds or in fact we r just like brothers. One day he called up n found bit nervous and depressed. I never have seen him like this. After some couple of minutes of interaction he opened up.

This is what Rahul has to say.

Rahul: It was same another?day as usual and I was listening to the shits, fucking idiotic stuff as my?love one was on cell.

I really don't understand having sex mate is gud for me or be alone is best for me?

We are in really deep relationship from last couple of years. But being in some body's bed doing all that to make her happy or giving a proof of u r love is that all about. Life u meet many u love many and u still u keep on searching for better n better. It is a never ending process.

I hate those saying that what I was looking for it’s all I got in my partner....U can fool all but not ur self.

To be very frank these are really crap and all are doing adjustment or hiding their expectations or?try to pretend them self being happy.

Rahul was really disturbed and I can c all the frustration on this face.

Rahul: It happened many of times with me after the play I felt so depressed and guilty and then I start questioning myself what the fuck!Why m doing this and what m getting out of these? Just a physical satisfaction that’s all. Having fun with a sexy ...hot....g/f is not a big deal nor how u do it how long u do it how deep u attached? U may be real KS Guru in doing that and but important things is that what u get out of this? Is that all u wanted from your partner? Is that ur life moves around sex n sex? Is that u love u r girl only for sex? Is she with u for fuck? Is she happy in u r company? Is she really the person you wanted? Is she loves u only for sex visa vice?

If all these questions bother u a lot and finding the answers for this u r loosing piece of mind then yes u r on negative side of it. If u feel u r?happy and then u may be fooling ur self.

Morale of the story is u will be never happy for longer time what ever be the lovable, cute, partner you have. We all get bored and fed up of the things very fast and this may be the main problem with all of us. Moreover some have many options for these that different issue it self.

As you start knowing more about u r partner urs affinity or willingness for next meetings may go down .Initially when u r new u find it is amazing, awesome but ?just like foam on soda bottle moves in the reciprocating manner against the time love tends to loose the charm.

No one on this tiny planet is happy ... the happiness is not having fun or being rich or famous but definitely happiness is associated to your mental peace and satisfaction.

It is just like a balance sheet in accounts that on one side u have love, sex and happiness, wealth on the other side responsibility, restriction, honesty, loss of freedom, worries, fights etc.

If the credit side is heavier then yes u r the luckiest person for some time. I repeat for SOME TIME. The things may changed drastically any time.

Rahul was screaming and shouting I never seen him in such a volcanic erupted mood. I was just nodding my head, helping him to vomit?the Lava out of his heart.

This little one way conversation is touchy and gave birth to many unanswered questions in my mind.

Who is happy here? A person like Rahul, having really cute hot sexy gud natured lady.

Some people rather mostly all never get satisfied with what they got or where they are. Fields are lush green on the other side of the fence.

M I happy being alone? Not having girl with me like my frnd Answer is No. I want but is that I have to pay such huge penalty in terms of loosing my peace of mind, restrictions or m i going to loose my freedom.If this is what m going to loose then I have to give a second thought to it.

Money, fame makes you happy? or u r lovely cute partner? or all these in one? then why not Rahul yaar? He has all in one package. Till yesterday I was jealous of him but today things are different.

Then who is happy ?????? Me...Rahul...certainly not. One has all and me lack in that.

I keep this question for u guys there. R u happy with u r partner? What is your way of being happy? and is that u r looking for?if answer is yes then u have reached to the self actualization part of the life according to some theory I came across in my MBA program. But if it is lasting for shorter time then ur too far form it.

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I wonder how to segregate people in this way but yes...u can when it comes to Luv n Sex.

I think basically we can put everyone of us in the following categories.

It is up to u where u find urself here... n that reflects u r attitude and basic instinct.

Cat 1. Sum people fall in love n do sex.

Cat 2. Sum people do sex n then fall in love

Cat 3.Sum people do sex n never fall in love.

Cat 4. Sum people fall in love but never do sex.

Cat 5. Sum people neither fall in love nor do sex.

So buddy in which Category u r ?

I am quite sure many of you are not aware of the facts that I am going to talk here. You will be shocked and scared after reading it.

No latex (Condom) as on today including the international brands available, gives you a bullet proof protection from HIV virus.

Unfortunately this is absolutely true and scientifically proved. There are millions of cases and studies available on net backing this. A causal sex with? frnds or with a stranger may be the cause of tragic end of ones life.

Now directly to the point .Here is the scientific reason and the facts.

Condoms are made up of elastic, stretchable material called as latex. If you view the condom under

electronic microscope then you will see numerous small holes uniformly distributed all over the walls.

These small holes are called as pores. The average size of a pore ranges from 5 to 50 Microns.

Here is the conversion for microns to mm Ă  1 Micron = 1/1000 of mm.

This means one micron is equivalent to 1000^th part of a millimeter. Now the average HIV virus dimension is 0.01 Micron approximately.

If you compare the diameter of a pore and with that of the HIV virus then you will see HIV virus is 500 times smaller in size than that of the pore. So now even if you use condom during sex and if either of the person is HIV positive then 99% chances are there that other will also get the infection.

I will make it more simple and clear. The HIV virus can pass from such infected person to non infected one so freely through the condom wall like a man passing through the 6 ft diameter water pipeline at Bandra (Mumbai).All Mumbai people knows these pipelines traveling in local trains.

So even if one puts more than one condom during the act the chances are the same. Hence restrict your sex desire and be honest to yourself and your partner. Prevention is better than cure or rather here there is no cure. Same is applicable to your partner because there is no point if she or he is not honest to you. This is more common with new generation boys and girls and 33% HIV positive cases are from 18-30 years age group people. It is really a big percentage and one should be careful and cautious.

Condom are useful in preventing bacterial infections like STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) caused by bacteria which are bigger in size can be retained by the latex wall but sure not the deadly HIV virus.

I feel we all should follow this “Don’t try causal Sex before marriage not just once”. You may the most unfortunate one even if you done it once. Take care of your self and you will find life is really very precious, beautiful and cool.

The fear of DEATH is more terrible than the actual. Pass this blog to your friend and let all should be aware of these. How smart you are and how intelligent you are is not going to help you here. So prevention is the only remedy.

 SEX IS THE OUT COME OF LOVE.?

Bullshit ...no way...it is many times just a physical attraction towards the opposite sex.

The next few line for those who had experienced the taste of sex before marriage and who are doing it right now.

When u love some one and if u r deeply attached to each other or physically attracted to sum one u may land up in the act of sex subject to your culture, beliefs and character. If you cross these resistive factors u may go for it. It depends upon the family culture and character u possess.

Having a sex is not a big deal but with whom u are having, the time and the mode of doing the act is important.

You can have sex to any one right from a man/girl on street, colleague, friend, chat friend, party friend, teacher, Boss at office, relative, room mate or legally wedded partner.

But it is important that to whom u r having a sex. It?is always safe to have to u r life partner this is obvious. Rest all will give you guilty feelings and sense of humiliation intrinsically.

Also the time. When u can have before marriage? After the marriage? u decide. According to Indian culture yes definitely after the marriage only.

I would like to talk more on this but I think this will be too lengthy and readers may loose the interest am sure that I have already released many self introspecting queries in the mind of the person who has read these few shit lines from me. This is was the only aim of putting these lines on web that think before when u go for SEX.

In my next blog I will have "mode of having a sex" as my main topic and m sure reader will enjoy it during reading.

Wait for some time n u will have it right here.

...Bye n c u soon